Can you show me some little tricks that I can use to keep myself going with the flow of my life.

Question: Can you show me some little tricks that I can use to keep myself going with the flow of my life. I want to live my life every day without resistance. Help me to catch myself before I fall. Give me the answers I can use every day.

Answer: Let’s start by talking about money since so many make their happiness dependent on having financial abundance. In order to allow money to flow to you and stick to you, you can play a sort of game. Here is what you can do. Every time you pay for an item or a service, rather than feeling tense or resentful, feel happy because you are helping someone else with your money. See the employees of the company being able to provide a good life for themselves and their families because of the money you are giving their company. Feel good about your ability to help others.

When requests for donations come , rather than saying no or giving grudgingly, give to every one of them that you feel good about, whatever you are comfortable giving. It can be any amount. The amount doesn’t matter as long as you give in a spirit of generosity and abundance. Feel good about helping someone else. It will tell law of attraction that you are prosperous and that will draw more money into your life. There is a law of life that says “Give and you receive.”

When you go to the grocery store, rather than complaining about the time and effort you are putting into it, give thanks with your whole heart for the abundance of food available to you and the money in your bank account that allows you to buy what you need or want. Gratitude brings more of everything you want into your life so always try to live with an attitude of gratitude.

Next allow the people around you to feel and behave the way they want to rather than judging them or trying to change their behavior. In fact, don’t even think about it. Don’t take it personally – it’s never about you. Don’t let your peace and happiness be dependent on their behaving in a certain way. We are all entitled to our feelings and we are not responsible for the way others feel. This means that it is not somebody else’s responsibility to behave in ways that make you happy. It is your job to find a way to be happy despite the attitudes or behaviors of those around you.

It’s not really all that hard to do. Just bless them always and send them love. If it is someone outside your close circle of family and friends, wish them well and distance yourself from them. If it is someone close to you, someone you love, rather than trying to change their behavior to something that is more acceptable to you, send them love, bless them and wish them peace, and then turn your attention to other people or activities that are more in line with how you want to feel.

Remember, feeling good is everything. It will bring you everything you desire and dream of. To feel good you must be willing to allow the world and people around you to be whom and what they are. So much of our lives is wasted because we give our power to others. When you make your happiness dependent on anything outside yourself, you will find yourself stressed and unhappy much more often than you would like to be. You are the power in your life. Your power is what gives you freedom and joy. Never sell it for money or exchange it for love, acceptance or material possessions. Love yourself unconditionally and everything else will fall into place.